Mistakes men make with women

Most men make predictable, common mistakes
when dealing with the opposite sex.
Do you always find the pair of four inch heels
running away from you? Have you always been
wondering what goes wrong? Have you not been
able to find the perfect woman for you? If you
answered yes to any of these questions then
this article is for you.
Here are some common mistakes men make
with women.
Choosing a woman based on beauty alone: This
is the common mistake committed by almost all
men. True, it is difficult to look past the
attractiveness. However, it is important to
remember that in due course of time, beauty
fades. Then it is the other factors like
compatibility, intellectual ability etc. that matter.
There surely has to be a proper blend if you
don’t want to be caught with a bimbo for the rest
of your life.
Do not try to be best friends too soon: It very
rarely happens that, women get attracted to their
best friends. A woman wouldn’t date a guy
merely on the basis of how understanding he is.
It is the degree of attraction that counts. So quit
being so available for her, that she takes you for
granted. Yes it is important that she feels
comfortable in your company, but that does not
mean she begins to treat you like one of her
girlfriends.
Hot temper and violent behavior: This can
instantly scare off women. In fact, you should
use this when you want to get rid of a clingy
date. Actions like being rude to the waiter or cab
driver or getting involved in unnecessary fights
with random people is the signature of a
narcissistic creep.
Sharing intimate details with her too soon: You
don’t need to tell her why you broke up with you
ex-girlfriend on the first date. Neither do you
have to tell her how much you are attracted to
her. It is always good to go slow in
relationships. As far as sharing intimate details
are concerned, it should be done at a much later
stage. This will not only build her interest in you,
but she will also begin to look forward to trying
to getting to know you.
Letting them take total control: Women would
naturally want to be with someone with who she
can feel secure. Whatever happens don’t let her
take total charge of any situation. Show it to her,
that you are man enough to look after things.
She will respect you and magnetically get
attracted to you.
Being bossy and dominating: Yes it is important
to learn to take charge, however that does not
mean that you go about dominating her all the
time. Let her take her own decisions. Advise her
only when you’re asked for it. Women hate to be
bossed around. They look out for a man, with
who they can be themselves. Hence, make sure
you accept her just the way she is.
Being self-obsessed: This can be a big turn-off
for any woman. No matter how good looking,
self-obsession is a trait of the unsecured.
Habits like constantly being bothered about your
looks, checking out your reflection even in a
spoon, being a constant shopaholic, etc will give
her the feeling that she is with one of her
girlfriends.
Corny pick-up lines: This is another instant turn-
off. Pick-up lines can be cute among lovers.
However, when you are using them to try to get
to know somebody they are a strict no-no. Most
of the time they are ineffective. There are
chances that she may pick the wrong signal,
thus subtracting any chance you might have
had with her. Instead, just ask a common friend
to introduce the two of you.
Bragging about yourself: There is a very thin
line between telling her about your
achievements and bragging about them. Women
hate braggers. They find them stupid and
annoying. Instead, just tell her about yourself.
As far as your achievements are concerned, let
her find them out herself. She will appreciate
your modesty.
Showering her with gifts: Big mistake! It is the
signature of a person plagued by insecurity and
foolishness. When you do this; you are indirectly
sending her the message saying that, you are so
insecure about yourself and hence you need to
buy gifts in order to get her attracted to you. You
may look like a desperate person, trying so hard
to get into a relationship.
These are some of the most common mistakes
that men tend to repeat over and over again, but
in different ways. Avoid these mistakes to have
a happy relationship.