Thursday, 13 November 2014

Signs He's Only Interested In Sex (And Not a Relationship)

How to tell whether the guy you're
seeing isn't interested in a
relationship with you. Watch out for
these signs.
There are a few clear-cut ways to detect whether
a man is into you or not.
So save yourself the time, heartache, and
emotions and learn to identify these dating
warning signs so you can get out of a relationship
before it gets ugly:
1. He doesn't call you his
girlfriend: Pay attention to how he
introduces you to others. If he introduces
you as, "This is my girlfriend (Name)," two
thumbs up! He's announcing to the world
that you are his woman. If he introduces you
as, "This is (Name)," that's a bad sign. He
doesn't want people to know he's "with" you,
or he doesn't feel serious enough about the
relationship to make that claim.
2. He spends more time with his
friends than with you: If he spends
more time with his friends than with you, he
may not be interested in anything serious.
It's possible he isn't really with his friends
at all. He might have another relationship
going and you are the side piece.
3. It's three-six months in and you
haven't met his family or
friends: When a man is interested in you,
he will showcase you like a trophy. If you've
never met a close friend or member of his
family, you are simply a play-toy or time
filler until the right woman comes along.
4. He doesn't want a committed
relationship: After a month or two, you
should have a clear indication of whether you
two are going to see each other exclusively or
not. If he doesn't want a committed
relationship with you, then he is keeping his
options open for someone better.
5. You've been dating for awhile,
but you've never seen his place:
There are only two possible reasons for this.
Either he is embarrassed by his living
conditions, or he lives with another woman
(girlfriend or wife) and possibly children.
6. The only times you get together
are indoors, at scheduled times:
You never go out in public or on dates
together. The relationship is primarily
sexual, not social. This is a sure sign that
he has no interest in you. You are just a
jump-off (a means to fulfill his sexual
urges).
7. He doesn't have time for you:
Sometimes, guys say they are too busy with
workschool. This could be the case, but if
it's always happening, then he is too busy for
the relationship but doesn't mind stringing
you along if sex is involved.
8. He doesn't call: If you have plans with
him and he's a no call/no show (with no
legitimate follow-up explanation), it's a
complete violation of the relationship. A
simple phone call, text, or email could
suffice. No communication represents no
respect for you or your time. If he was into
you, he'd be eager to call you just to chat.
There are countless signs that a man can give to
let you know he's not into you. This short list
should get you started.

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