How To Satisfy Your Woman S*xually

Séxual satisfaction is relative. What
one woman likes might not be what
another woman wants. Although there are a few
basic things you should know about a woman’s
desire and how to keep her happy.
1. Listen to her: And not just her words, but
her body too. Communication is key when it comes
to having a pleasurable séxual experience. Don’t
be shy to actually talk about what you like and ask
her what she enjoys. Also, a woman has a way of
letting her man know what she likes by the way
she moves, the sounds she make and her overall
demeanor. Don’t be so focused in your own
pleasure that you don’t take the time to focus on
her.
2. She needs to be distracted – and in a good
way: During séx, men focus on the oncoming
climax Women’s minds wander, often into fantasy.
To reach orgásm, she needs to clear her head and
turn off her brain’s fear center. “Fantasy is a way
for her to disconnect her mind, and it becomes an
important part of deactivating her fear center.
Encourage her release by constructing an érotic
fantasy before things heat up. Then, Quilliam says,
you can whisper provocative sentences to each
other in turn, building a story she can get lost in.
3. Let her take control: Men naturally want to take
charge, but often times, you might not know what
she likes until you give her the chance to take
control. Let her control the pace and intensity, so
that you can get a feel of what is best for her.
Encourage her to be on top: It allows her to
take advantageof a full range of positions-facing
you, facing away, even sitting cross-legged on
you.
4. Spot the érotic spots: Her clítoris, vaginá, and
uréthra are interconnected, and researchers
believe that stimulating any one of them may
contribute to overall arousál. Experts suggest
branching out and teasing what some call the U-
spot-an area between her cli**ris and vaginá,
located near the entrance to her urethrá. Use soft,
circular motions with your finger. Uráthral nerves
are very sensitive, so stimulation here creates a
particular kind of árousal-a soft, melting form of
climáx. Make sure your hands are clean, though-
the area is infection-prone.
5. Slow down: Pulling back when she’s near
clímax and then resuming can enhance her
orgásm. Suspense raises the psychological
arousal level. Ask her to tell you when she’s near
the top, and then pull back for a few minutes to
kíss and concentrate on other parts of her body.
Repeat several times-build up, back off-until you
take her over the edge. Don’t fear ruining a
moment. It takes 5 to 10 minutes for arousál to
really subside, so even if she thinks she’s “lost it,”
you’re probably equipped to bring her back.